Which Do You Prefer?

Sociopath is the word I prefer to use as apposed to the “New Age Word” of “Antisocial Personality Disorder” because there is nothing anti social about them. Well at least not in the sense we understand about social, for example a social person would be regarded as someone who goes out and see’s people all the time. “Antisocial Personality Disorder” I guess it really stems from the way that they are not true or honest in a social environment.

I believe that it is because people these days want to be politically correct. You can no longer say someone is short you must say “vertically challenged” heck you cant even call someone stupid anymore, you need to say something like “mentally challenged”.

Anyhow enough on my reasons as to why I prefer Sociopath

Written By Elias Gourvelos

When a sociopath show what seems to be warmth, joy, love or compassion it is not by the experience of truly giving these emotions out but the parrot fashion practice in having someone feel that they are.

The reasoning behind the deceptive emotional expression towards another is simply for the con that serves their ulterior motive.

Sociopaths are often outraged by insignificant matters, yet remain unmoved and cold by what would upset a normal person.

Since they are not genuine, neither are their emotions that they express.

Elias Gourvelos

A deep seated rage, which is split off and repressed, is at their core. 

They do not see others around them as people, but only as targets and opportunities. Instead of friends, they have victims and accomplices who end up as victims.

The end always justifies the means and they let nothing stand in their way.

Elias Gourvelos

The sociopath we had met told us a story one day, this story was told way after I initially met her, well down the track, I must add that at this point I had checked some of the references that the sociopath had given us and it was around the time that I started warning people about this con artist this sadistic conniving female sociopath.

I had to play along because this sociopath had rooted her evil seed so deeply into my family that if I outright barred the sociopath from my family I would have lost. I could see my family falling apart before my very eyes but I couldnt make any rash moves to distant the sociopath from our lives.

This sociopaths story was one of sympathy, a pity roll, a want for attention, and the inevitable con for money. This sociopath did not know that there was a possibility that I would know so much about the subject she was about to tell us.

This is how the whole thing went down.

The sociopath said that she has had a vision, oh yes a vision she was a seeyer or clairvoyant or whatever it is that they call themselves, she stated that she saw that her brother burnt himself over seas. She claimed that her brother was going to light up a BBQ and was going to use petrol to light the BBQ. She explained that he had a cigarette in his mouth when he poured some petrol into a cup and the sociopath explained that when her brother walked towards the BBQ the petrol exploded and his arm caught on fire.

I said to her, really? he had a smoke already lit in his mouth when he poured the petrol, she said yes, I said oh that was silly, and she continued in the detail of her vision, I stopped the sociopath and said and as he walked towards the BBQ his arm caught on fire, she said yes the ash fell from his cigarette and fell into the cup and the petrol exploded.

The sociopath continued talking about the vision, stating more detail so that I wouldnt ask any more questions, then here was the sympathy role coming into play. She said that her sister in-law wants her to go over seas and help her take care of things, but the sociopath said she has no money to go and that this sister in-law will have to see if she can have the government assist etc etc.

Well at this point I became frustrated, I couldnt handle listening to the crap anymore, I said come outside, I want to go into the garage and get some petrol, I want to light up a smoke place it in my mouth and lean down into a cup with the smoke in my mouth and let you see that a cigarette can not ignite petrol in a cup and I’m so sure of this that I will leave the smoke in my mouth inches away from the cup to prove to you that it is impossible. I said come on come on everybody come outside I need to show you this.

Needless to say I upset the sociopath, because up to this point she had everyone eating out of her hand, everyone was in a trance, I couldnt handle the lies and had the outburst mentioned above.

She then back peddled and said this is what they told me, what can I say, I said no hang on, you said you had a vision, she said yes I did see his arm burnt. I said no hang on you said you saw him and you explained it in detail. She said no when I saw his arm burnt I immediately called and they told me how it happened. I said it’s all lies, it cant happen, it’s impossible! do you understand me, its impossible!

The reason behind the outburst was I lost a bet when I was studying electrical engineering with a mechanical engineer a guy that builds grand prix engines for formula one racing vehicles. He was working on my car one day and he had a cigarette in his mouth as he was adjusting my fuel to air mixture lifted off the cover to the petrol float area where the fuel sits before getting mixed into the jets of the carburettor.
I said are you crazy he said to me there is no way that a cigarette can ignite petrol, the fuel to air mixture just will not be right. I said oh right, and he said I bet you your packet of smokes that it is impossible, I said your on!

The engineer said hand me your cigarettes, so I did, he got a cup of petrol and lit up every cigarette trying one way then another,  the first one he lit he placed in his mouth leaned down with the cigarette in his mouth and extinguished it in the cup of petrol.  I was shocked.
He then got every other cigarette and by hand extinguished them by throwing them at the cup, pouring the cup onto the lit cigarettes etc, he did it in so many different ways to prove his point at my expense. He said that without a flame or a spark there is no way burning ash can ignite petrol.

Now you can understand why I said to the sociopath that it is impossible for it to happen because seeing is believing.

Written by Elias Gourvelos

Sociopath tend to have good memories for lies, they can recall a lie years later with details, making you think that it’s a true story. However this lying is caught out, if you have some awareness of things around.

I will explain later how I caught out the sociopath and how the sociopath became aware that I was aware of them lying, the repercussions of this still linger on today, where I still fear for my life.

It is impossible for them to be truthful, however strange this seems it’s the opposite of what we are use to, think of it this way, you do something wrong at work, and instead of owning up to it you go and tell your boss a lie.
Now this is difficult for most of us, in the same way that this lie is difficult for us the sociopath has difficulty in stating the truth.

A sociopath can get caught up in, a complex belief about their own powers and abilities. Extremely convincing they are even able to pass lie detector tests.
(Think about that for a moment)

Written By Elias Gourvelos

A Sociopath will not care for the rights of others, however, hypocritically their rights are paramount. Sociopath’s are charmers, and will be planning multiple paths of hostile intent, if one path to their goal is discovered then they switch it covertly to the next path, the brainstorming this requires is unimaginable to the average person.

The older a Sociopath the more experienced in this method, they use people who I will call victims as pawns in the game they are playing. However it’s not a game to the victims who cross the sociopath I’m one of them. The sociopath will manipulate anything necessary to have you destroyed should you go against them.

As in the game of Chess the pawns are sacrificed to save the King or Queen so to is in the case of the life of the sociopath they will sacrifice everyone seeing us all as pawns and themselves as the King or Queen.

Written by Elias Gourvelos

This is how they real you in, a sociopath is not unlike the best salesman you ever met, their words will flow out of their mouth as if it was written or been said over and over again and again. Charming, well this definition or trait of a sociopath is so common amongst them its not funny, the charm a sociopath will express is almost memorizing, you cant help but want to be around them.

Even if you have doubts, the charm of a sociopath is so unique that you dismiss the doubts in an instance, well at first you do, everybody eventually understands the charming con.

written by Elias Gourvelos

I was looking into sociopaths some time ago and ran across some interesting articles regarding the Jezebel Spirit. Now the way I read into it, is that for those who cant accept the “Sociopath” or “Antisocial Personality Disorder” look to Religions or the dark realms or what ever that is to explain the scientific.
The simple fact is we judge others based upon our own morals and views, and when someone doesnt conform to those standards we think that they are mentally disturbed or evil and even demonic simply because they dont do things that we do.
To put it simply do we ever know what is in the mind of another? do we say that just because we dont do a particular thing that this thing is not the absolute norm for someone else? Here is an example, some people eat rats as a delicacy would you?
Just simply look at males and females, do we do what the other does? NO we dont, but lets go further, do we practice all religions or any religions? should we all be the same?
I mean whats normal and in comparison to what?
I guess it’s what we class the general populations views and morals as being classed as the norm, the law of averages so to speak, but go to another country and that is grossly inaccurate for the one you live in. As they say when in Rome do as the Romans do.
Anyhow I side tracked enough, the Jezebel spirit is what I see as being a description of all the sociopath types summed into one, it’s good reading and I will make a page soon that has the descriptions outlined.

Regards Elias Gourvelos

I think that the odds of meeting a sociopath are 50/50. You may ask why? Here is the method to my madness for calculating this.

It is known that 1 in 25 people is a sociopath so keep this in mind. But lets keep sociopaths out of this for the moment. 

Take a normal introduction to a group of people. Now what are the chances that in that group of people that you will have a new best friend ? I would say that if you would work it out it would be around 1 in 25 introductions that you will “click” or have something in common with one of them, like one of them etc.

Now back to the sociopath, if a sociopath is introduced to someone, they will usually attempt to become that persons best new friend, classing everyone that they meet as a potential new victims.

So I guess if 1 in 25 people is genuine in becoming a friend to you and 1 in 25 people is a sociopath that also wants to become a friend to you then by my calculations that is a 50/50 chance of the next person who wants to become a new friend of yours actually being a sociopath.

Scary isnt it.

Regards Elias Gourvelos

The percentage of sociopaths in the general population is said to be around 1% Females and 3% Males which in total makes 4% of the population.
This equates to 1 in 25 people being a Sociopath.
Now you think to yourself, I work with an X amount of people then there must be around X sociopaths amongst them.

More on this later

Regards Elias Gourvelos